You might have heard the advice, “A real woman never chases a man…she gets HIM to chase her.”
And that’s great advice and I’m not here to burst that bubble.
If you want to make a guy chase you, you need to be as close as you can. In that way, he will be able to see you every day and he will start talking to you more. If he likes the way you talk with him, you can find some interesting topics you can talk about and in that way, you can get to know each other much better. Product details. Item Weight: 5.8 ounces Paperback: 136 pages ISBN-13: 9545 Product Dimensions: 5.25 x 0.34 x 8 inches ISBN-10: Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (December 4, 2008).
But…the real question is, how does a girl go about doing that? You know, being a real woman, a real powerful femme fatale that has the confidence and “Je ne sais quoi” to make a man crazy with desire? Or to put it in more modern terms…how do you get the “X-Factor” to make guys want to chase you?
How to Make a Guy Chase You
Here are seven tips that really work and will send subtle but strong hints to Mister Right that it’s time to become a hunter.
1. How Do You Get Him to Chase You? Stop Chasing Him.
This doesn’t mean you can never make a first move or be nice. But once he feels a connection with you, it’s time to step back and let him do the talking and the chasing. A man gets a rush from the thrill of the chase and if you try so hard to “help him along” and give direct orders on how he should romance you…he’s going to think this is all way too easy. So if you sense you’re losing control and starting to crave his attention and time…chill out. Take some time to yourself and be a little mysterious for a while.
2. Want Him to Chase You? Don’t Show Weakness.
Whether you want to call this healthy self-confidence, or just stubbornness (in that you never let him see you sweat, never cry over him or let him know you “need him”) is up to you. But you must hold onto to that deep inner confidence if you want to be chased. Strong confident woman who aren’t afraid of a man walking away from them, are attractive. They are almost magnetic to men who love the competition and that thrill of “winning” a woman’s heart.
No, that doesn’t entitle you to be Roseanne Barr or Rosie O’Donnell and just start slapping men’s egos around like you own the place. Don’t show aggression…just show deep inner strength. Let everyone know that you’re content…no one could ever take away your happiness. Least of all a man!
3. How to Get a Guy to Chase You. Don’t Play Hard to Get… Play FUN to Get.
A lot of women fall into the trap of being too difficult and “too hard to get” which eventually drives men away. And no, contrary to what some say, men bending over backwards just to get a smile from a scowling woman who has her shields up, is no fun at all.
The key is to be nice, playful, interested…but unavailable. Maybe you pretend like you don’t trust him…or you pretend as if you’re busy or hard to impress. But the trick is to always smile, flirt and give him the hope that if he tries a little harder, he can win you over. That will give him an adrenaline rush and he will enjoy “persuading” you to give him a chance. That’s the secret dynamic in the push – pull that so many men like.
4. Make Him Chase You… Find Something More Important Than a Man’s Love.
I know, it may not make much sense at all. After all, if you’re in love with a great guy, why does the sun go on shining? Why does the sea rush to shore?
But here’s the thing. Men love you more when they sense that you have your own life, your own dreams and ambitions, and your own passions that are beyond the simple pleasures in life.
Believe it or not, they want to be someone important and they want to do something great for the world. When they see the same humanitarian quality in you, they will be humbled and amazed. They will see you have a deep mind, a giving spirit, and a plan on how to live a life with real meaning. The kind of “family-oriented” partner that would make a good wife and mother.
You will be instantly above all the other “girls” who just want instant pleasure, free stuff, sex and romance novels. You will become the woman he loves, the woman who makes him want to be a better person.
5. Best Way to Get Him to Chase… When in Doubt, Retain Some Mystery.
Some women make the mistake of spilling everything, ever, within the first three dates. Tell him everything about your family, your friends, your childhood, your traumatic memories and your sexual quirks!
But now the problem is…what’s left? He sort of knows everything there is to know about you and now he’s losing interest.
Real seduction involves revealing the truth of yourself in “layers”. Share slowly…keep him guessing and share only what is relevant to the conversation. Don’t volunteer personal information unless he asks.
The less eager you are to share everything right away, the more he will want to “chase” you. He will crave your attention and want to get to know you better. There’s nothing wrong with making him “work a little” to get your most private thoughts and memories. In the end, he will admire the mystery he sees in you.
After all, who does Batman really want to date? Catwoman or plain old Vicki Vale? Oh do you even have to ask?
6. When He’s Chasing Subtle Flirting is Better than Trying Too Hard AND Better than Ignoring.
Don’t fall into the trap of being too passive. Men DO want signals showing that you’re enjoying the chase. So be flirty but be subtle. Eye contact is good but constant staring is too much. Touching him occasionally is cute but clinging to his arm isn’t cool. Let him lead the conversation rather than throwing pickup lines at him or talking about dating, sex, or anything too shocking for the first date.
What you’re doing is being flirty in a feminine way and not an overly aggressive way that scares most men from their natural hunting inclinations.
7. If You Want Him to Chase – Never Give Up Running.
Men not only love the thrill of the hunt or “chase” in the beginning…they always do love it, now and forever, and even years into the future of the relationship. Men may like some routines but they don’t like to settle down to a life of boredom. They want mystery. They want surprises from you. They always want to feel as if this is still a “new relationship” in the honeymoon stage, with all the same romance and excitement they felt in the beginning.
As you can see, there are ways to make men chase you, yearn for you and obsess over you. It’s not just that “less is more”…it’s about sending the right signals to the man to keep him motivated. It’s about making him work a little harder for what he wants most—your attention and trust.
Just remember to always keep it fun. He shouldn’t feel as if he has to chase you as an obligation…this is part of the game. This he should be thinking, “This is fun…and I want more!”
Now you understand the thrill of the hunt! That how you make a guy chase you.
The 5 Word Phrase That Destroys a Man’s Love For You And Drives Him Out Of Your Life
There’s a simple 5 word phrase that will destroy any man’s love for you and drive him out of your life completely…
It usually comes out as an honest question when you want to connect with him…
But only serves to push him away and slowly kill your relationship from the inside out…
It can take a man who is filled with love and passion for you…
And make him feel cold, distant, and uninterested…
Have you figured out what it is yet?
Many women send this as a text message when they’re feeling insecure…
And then are confused why he suddenly pulls away and disappears completely…
Most of the women who ask it don’t even know how harmful it is…
Yet it can take a relationship that seems like it’s perfect…
A relationship where you feel loved, cared for, and like you’ve finally found “the one”…
And overnight, it can tear that relationship apart…
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Leaving you confused, frustrated, and heartbroken…
If you don’t know what this simple yet seemingly innocent question is…
I want you to stop what you’re doing and go watch this video presentation that I put together for you at the link below…
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If you’re struggling with men pulling away from you…
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Want to know how to make a girl chase you? Let her see that you’re a guy worth chasing. Show her you’re the attractive, high-value man that all women want and you’ll get her chasing you in no time. For tips on just how to attract women this way, read on.
Attract women with confidence
It’s no secret that confidence is the #1 thing all women want in a man. So if you’re going to get a woman to notice you and ultimately get her to chase you, you’ve got to show her you’re the confident man women want.
You can show a woman confidence before you even meet her by having strong, confident body language. To do this, avoid excess body movements like fidgeting or shuffling about aimlessly. Instead, keep your body movements purposeful and controlled. Whenever you move or walk, do so with intent and direction. This will help you look confident to the women that notice you.
Make her laugh
Next to confidence, the other trait all women want in men is a sense of humor. Now, this this doesn’t mean you have to be the funniest guy in the room or rattle off jokes nonstop. Instead, you just need to establish that you have the ability to make her laugh.
A well-placed joke or banter line will work wonders in making a girl laugh and therefore building attraction with women. If being funny when talking with a woman doesn’t come naturally to you, it can help to have a funny joke, story, or banter line in your back pocket ready to go when needed. For some clever banter lines to use with girls that will help you get her to laugh, check out the banter examples on the Art of Charm Banter Cheat Sheet.
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Now if you want to make her chase you, you’ve got to give her some space to do it. Let her see that you’re not completely sold on her quite yet – and that if things are going to go anywhere, she must win you over.
One way to get a girl to chase you then, is to give her a small obstacle to overcome. A simple question like “So what’s something about you I’d never know just by looking?” is a good question to ask a girl because it provides that challenge. What’s more, she’ll want to answer that question in a way that will get you to see her in a positive light. So simply by answering it, she assumes the role of a woman chasing you. (For more on how to make women chase you through qualification check out the Art of Charm toolbox podcast on qualification)
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If you want to become more attractive to women you’ve got to show that you’re a high-value guy with lots of choice in his dating life. And the best way to show women you’re that guy is to actually be that guy.
Use body language to get women to chase you
We already talked about how to use body language to show confidence with women. But you can use body language to build attraction with women in other ways as well.
For example, when approaching a woman and starting a conversation with a girl you just met, be sure to give her some negative body language early in the interaction. Stand shoulder-to-shoulder rather than face to face. Make eye contact about 50% of the time and look way (with purpose and intention) the other 50%. This will keep you from showing too much interest too early (which would ultimately chase the woman away). Instead, she’ll start working to get more of your attention (in other words, it will get her to chase you).
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Bonus tip: Get her to chase you with playful teasing
A great flirting technique that will instantly make women chase you is something called push-pull. The idea here is to playfully push a woman away and get her to question whether or not you are interested in her. You want to do it in a fun way where she thinks you’re kidding, but she’s not sure.
Here’s a banter example of what to say to a girl that demonstrates push pull: During a conversation with a girl, you could say something like: “Aw you’re adorable, you’re like my baby sister”. This is a great way to banter with a girl because it’s a compliment – but at the same time, she doesn’t want to be thought of as your baby sister. She wants to be seen as sexy, desired woman. If she’s at all interested in you then she’s going to want to change the way you see her. It becomes a fun game for her and it will make the girl want to chase you.
(You can learn more about this type of flirty banter through the Art of Charm podcast on how to banter with women using playful teasing.)